It’s Back-to-School time here in Michigan. This time of year can be both exciting and stressful, especially for children with autism spectrum disorder or other developmental needs.
Children can have anxiety about new or possibly stressful situations just like adults. Remember how you’ve felt starting a new job or meeting new people. Now multiply that feeling by 100… or 1000, if you struggle with learning, communication and social interactions.
Parents of children with autism or other special needs understand the importance of staying involved in their child’s education. As the new school year approaches, you may be thinking about how to create a smooth start to school. Some planning ahead can make a world of difference in how your child acclimates to the new school year.
Here are some tips to help ease the transition—we hope you find a few that are helpful!
Preparing Your Child:
- Talk about school often with your child: Look at pictures of friends and school activities from the previous year to encourage conversation about school. If your child has a friend that will be in the same class, arrange a play date before school starts.
- Discuss details with your child: Review when school starts, what grade they are going into and their teacher’s name (if you know it). Just doing this one thing can help reduce their anxiety. Using a calendar to countdown the days is also helpful for visual learners.
- Adjusting to school time: If your child is used to sleeping in during the summer, start to prepare for the school morning schedule by waking them up a bit earlier each day.
- Plan a pre-visit: Try to schedule a visit with your child to meet their teacher and see their classroom the week before the first day. Giving your child a visual of their room, locker, or desk can help ease anxieties they may have. If applicable, ensure your child knows how to use a combination lock—here’s a helpful resource.
- Practice with school supplies: Get school supplies well in advance so that your child can get used to them. They may prefer their familiar backpack, lunch bag, certain colored folders, etc.—and that’s okay! A familiar item can bring comfort when there is so much newness happening in their world.
- For older students: Color-code notebooks and materials (including making text book covers) for different classes. Color coding can help your child identify and keep their materials together more easily.
Preparing the School Team:
Your child spends the majority of their awake hours at school. Establishing a collaborative relationship with all those involved in their education will undoubtedly make for a smoother school year.
- Meet the teacher: Ask to schedule a meeting with the teacher before the first day. This will give you a chance to discuss seating, potential distractions and your child’s strengths and needs. Take a copy of your child’s IEP to give to the teacher. Review any specific items you want to make sure they are aware of.
- New school tour: If it’s a new school, contact them to ask for a tour. If permitted, take pictures of the school, playground, classroom, cafeteria, specials rooms and teacher to create a social story for your child.
- Meet the principal: Arrange to meet with the principal if your child is new to the school. Being proactive helps everyone to better understand your child’s needs.
- Create an “About Me” page for your child: Include their strengths, skills they’re working on, possible sensory issues, dietary restrictions, and favorite reinforcers. Also include a few “fun facts” about your child. Make copies for your child’s teachers, para pros and therapists. You can also provide one for the principal, assistant principal, bus driver, and any other school staff or teachers your child may encounter regularly. It’s helpful for everyone working with your child to have a “snapshot” of them.
- Update your child’s medical & dietary information: Ensure the school has updated information, including any new medications your child is taking. If your child has special dietary needs, be sure to address (or readdress) these with the school to ensure they will be managed.
- Initiate collaboration: If this does not happen automatically, encourage communication among new and previous teachers. Ask them to share teaching techniques that were beneficial to your child’s learning. It can also be helpful to share information on known behavior struggles and strategies that worked well. If your child has outside therapists, ask them to communicate any helpful information with the new teacher, as well.
- Create a reinforcement system: Collaborate with the teacher or a behavior specialist to create a system to reward your child for positive days, especially during the transition back.
Preparing Yourself:
A calm mom and dad are better able to help their child have a smooth transition back to school.
- Update Emergency Contacts: Confirm who your emergency contacts are and make sure you have their current phone number. This can sometimes be a little more complicated for families that have children with autism or other disabilities.
- Review your child’s IEP: Make sure it is exactly how you want it to be for the start of the school year. If the IEP needs updating (maybe due to changes in some areas over the summer), request a meeting with the IEP team to make changes.
- Try to relax—if possible: Children can sense their parents’ anxiety. If you can keep your stress in check, it will help your child stay calm on the first day and through the school year.
We hope you found some helpful back to school tips. We want to help create a smooth transition for your child with autism—and you!
And if your child struggles in their school setting or needs more focused behavior supports, take a look at our services. We have a variety of supports for individuals with autism across our three Metro Detroit locations.